Burgundy Lace Kimono + Lessons on Patience
Happy Wednesday! Real talk ya’ll- yesterday was a bit of a train wreck. Upon waking up my entire day was pretty much ruined when I dropped my iPhone in water. I know, I know #realworldproblems, but it seriously put such a damper on my day.
All morning long I desperately googled “Ways to fix/dry water-damaged iPhone” and literally tried everything under the sun to get my phone to turn back on. Of course it probably didn’t help that after trying each suggestion I would immediately attempt to turn it back on, only to be disappointed when nothing instantly happened.
And then it got me thinking about how we have so many similar expectations in life. We start diets on Monday and expect a 10 lb weight loss by Friday. List a house for sell and expect multiple offers that day. Try our hand at something new and expect that we’ll be the next great superstar at it.
But life doesn’t work like that and we don’t always get the instantaneous results that we long for. Sometimes when we think it’s the right moment for something, it isn’t yet in God’s plan for us. And while it’s sometimes hard to understand the why’s, it’s important to have patience, focus on the good, and not question what we don’t understand.
Yes it completely stinks that my iPhone is currently out of commission and I potentially lost all my family photos that my iCloud hadn’t backed up. But you know what? My kids and husband are alive, well, and with me right here in real-life and that’s SO much more important. Yes it’s going to be strange to not have a phone for a couple days while I wait for it to hopefully dry out in a bag of rice, but I’m pretty sure we all survived pre-google, pre-navigation, and pre-phone alarms.
And maybe if nothing else this will serve as a lesson to a. purchase an sd card I’ve been putting off for years now b. stop relying so heavily on technology for basic tasks (i.e. buy an actual alarm clock) and c. (most importantly) remember that real life and the here and now is ALWAYS more important.
Kimono (c/o Pink Blush)
And in case you’re wondering about this gorgeous burgundy lace kimono that I’m wearing, it’s from PinkBlush and is seriously perfect for this fall. Not to mention it’s pretty much the only long sleeve thing I can wear right now in Georgia, because well it’s still as hot as ever here.
Although I’ve worn it a couple of different ways so far, including pairing it with a skirt and pairing with leggings, I truly love the contrast between the burgundy and the white pants. Add in a pair of your favorite boots and you have the perfect, girly look for fall!
This kimono also has the most beautiful, delicate detail that is so feminine. It’s also super soft on the skin and non-irritating like some lace material can be, which is always a major plus in my book.
So even though my week started off on a bad note, I’m choosing to see it as a blessing in disguise and going to enjoy the time I normally would have spent unnecessarily glued to a phone screen with my family.
Buuuut if you could keep your fingers crossed for a miracle in recovering my photos, I sure would appreciate it! 😉
Hope each of you have a great week ahead and thanks for stopping by!- Cara
Helen Little says
October 18, 2017 at 6:34 amAwww I’m sorry about your phone! I depend on mine so much. Several times my phones have met watery deaths – I feel your pain! But yes there are always worse things and we have a lot to be grateful for. Your kimono is beautiful. Hope you restore your photos. Fingers crossed!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:23 amThank-you! While I had to get a new phone, I was able to save all my photos thankfully! At the end of the day this lesson did teach me what was most important though!
Andrea Nine says
October 18, 2017 at 6:36 amBurgundy lace at it’s best girl! What a beautiful piece of lace to keep you in style for the fall! You look beautiful iand that color is so good with your beautiful blonde hair!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:24 amThank you so much Andrea! I’ll definitely be wearing it several ways this fall! 🙂
Theresa | Bridesmaids Confession says
October 18, 2017 at 6:53 amThis is beautiful and it pairs so well with your white pants!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:24 amThank-you! I really like the contrast too!
Neely Moldovan says
October 18, 2017 at 7:37 amLove the boots and kimono combo! So pretty!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:24 amThanks Neely! 🙂
Jenn says
October 18, 2017 at 7:42 amSo pretty! Especially with the white pants and brown boots! Great Fall piece 🙂
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:25 amThanks Jenn! Definitely a new fall staple to have! 🙂
Sam says
October 18, 2017 at 7:50 amSuch a pretty color and perfect for a crisp Autumn day!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:25 amThank-you! I just love the color!
Jen says
October 18, 2017 at 7:52 amI’m loving your style and I’m happy to see an outfit where I can extend the life of my white jeans into the fall weather! That lace is gorgeous!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:26 amThanks Jen! I always love wearing white jeans in all the seasons! 😉
mary says
October 18, 2017 at 8:12 amI have never seen a lace kimono before. So fun! I love the color too.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:26 amThank-you! It’s such a pretty, unique piece to have!
Marie says
October 18, 2017 at 8:44 amSorry to hear about your phone. I feel your pain as I have been there before. But you are so right, at the end of the day, it’s just a phone and things can always be worse. I love that kimono on you. The color is stunning.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:27 amThanks Marie! I was able to save my photos thankfully, so it all worked out. But definitely taught me a great lesson too! 🙂
Alexa says
October 18, 2017 at 8:59 amLove this kimono! And fingers crossed you can get your photos back! That’s always the worst part about your phone dying.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:27 amThank-you! I was able to save the photos thankfully! 🙂
Mikki Donaldson says
October 18, 2017 at 9:37 amYes, so sorry about your phone and pics. I know how sad that makes anyone feel. But I do admire your positive attitude and that burgundy lace kimono. 😉
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:29 amThank-you! It all worked out thankfully and I was able to save the photos but it taught me a great lesson.
Beth says
October 18, 2017 at 9:54 amI love this kimono! It is feminine and lovely and such a great color for Fall! And I am pretty sure my day would be ruined by my iPhone being dropped in water too. I”m glad you found a way to turn it around and that it even kind of taught a lesson in patience!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:29 amThanks Beth! It’s important to be reminded to have patience sometimes! 🙂
Adriana Renee says
October 18, 2017 at 10:00 amKimonos have become one of my favorite things to wear lately and this one is so cute! Love the color!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:30 amThanks Adriana! They’re so pretty!
Marette Flora says
October 18, 2017 at 10:27 amThis lace kimono is amazing! I am all about lace. So sorry about your phone, though. That’s always a bummer. 🙁
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:30 amThank-you! It all ended up working out and I was able to save the photos, though it was super stressful!
Nicole @ What Nicole Wore says
October 18, 2017 at 10:28 amEeeek I’m so sorry to hear about your phone; I know I would freak out so hopefully the rice trick works. That lace kimono is so pretty for fall.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:31 amThanks Nicole! I was so glad to be able to save my photos, though it was so stressful! lol
Tanya Dufour says
October 18, 2017 at 10:47 amThat stinks about your phone but on the plus side, you get to get a break from social media! Things can be replaced but time can’t. Love the kimono, so pretty!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:32 amI like that quote “Things can be replaced but time cant” I am happy to report that I was able to save the photos, but it definitely taught me what matters most. 🙂
Lecy | A Simpler Grace says
October 18, 2017 at 12:05 pmThe color of that kimono is perfect for fall! I love the whole look you put together!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:33 amThanks Lecy! The burgundy shade is so pretty!
Helen says
October 18, 2017 at 12:30 pmugh! Dropping your phone is the worst. Hate that happened to you! Loving that kimono though.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:33 amThanks! It all worked out thankfully, but geez it was stressful lol.
Kate says
October 18, 2017 at 12:57 pmSuch a bummer about your phone, but love your perspective about the good in your life! And loving this kimono, such a gorgeous color for fall <3
Green Fashionista
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:34 amThanks Kate! So glad I was able to save photos! And this kimono is so perfect for fall!
Whitney says
October 18, 2017 at 1:03 pmSorry about your phone! I hate when stuff like that happens because it just impacts all areas of your life. Hope the bag of rice trick works for you.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:34 amThanks! The phone ended up dying, but just before it did I was able to save our photos. 🙂
Jen E. says
October 18, 2017 at 1:14 pmThat really is a bummer about your phone, I get it. You’d think by now all phone would be water proof, but I’m pretty sure water accidents are how these companies are making their money. I love Burgundy and that Kimono is one of the biggest reasons I love fall…all the lovely clothes!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:35 amHaha, right? I have re-instated a no phone around water rule though! lol And thank-you!
Amanda Rinehart says
October 18, 2017 at 1:17 pmLove it! Beautiful kimono. You could totally use it for all seasons too!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:36 amThank-you! I like that it’s versatile too!
Krystin says
October 18, 2017 at 1:36 pmThis is a gorgeous colour on you, so pretty!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:36 amThanks Krystin!
ShootingStarsMag says
October 18, 2017 at 1:57 pmFingers crossed your phone turns on. It did provide a nice lesson though – patience is definitely a virtue that’s hard to come by, but it’s good to keep in mind. And to appreciate what you have right in front of you.
Cute kimono! Thanks for sharing.
-lauren
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:37 amThank-you! It all turned out, thankfully, but definitely taught me a lesson!
Rachel R Ritlop says
October 18, 2017 at 3:07 pmI hope you can recover your photos!! That’s such a bummer!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:38 amI was able to save them thankfully, but man it was stressful lol
Jasmine @ Jasmine Maria Blog says
October 18, 2017 at 3:17 pmI depend on my phone so much as well and I would be panicking if my phone got wet. Hoping you can get a replacement that won’t cost an arm and a leg. This kimono is pretty and perfect for fall.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:45 amThanks! I was able to save the photos thankfully but did have to buy a new phone. They should seriously make things water proof lol
Daria says
October 18, 2017 at 4:46 pmWhat a beautiful color! perfect for fall. Your pictures look great!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:46 amThanks Daria! I love the color too! 🙂
Tanvi Rastogi says
October 18, 2017 at 8:13 pmThat’s an absolutely beautiful kimono. The color is perfect for fall.
❥ tanvii.com
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:47 amThanks Tanvi! I love how it’s so lightweight!
Alison @ Puppies & Pretties says
October 18, 2017 at 8:52 pmWet phones are never fun! But I do love that kimono, perfect for those warm fall temperatures.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:47 amThank-you!
stephanie parrell says
October 19, 2017 at 5:57 amBeautiful outfit! I had a rough start to my week also, but like you, I am trying to look on the bright side. It can be so easy to become overrun by negative emotions and feelings about ourselves and our lives. I try not to dwell on it too much as to not give the negative any more power. Hope you have a great weekend!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:49 amThank-you Stephanie! My husband always says “It is what it is” and I try to live by that now. Sometimes you just have to learn from it and move on.
Thena says
October 19, 2017 at 7:08 amWow, this is so beautiful. That color of lace is so fall, and it looks fabulous on you!!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:49 amThank-you! The color is my favorite part!
kathy @ more coffee, less talky says
October 19, 2017 at 7:12 amBUT YOUR BOOTS! i love them. i’m looking for a new pair of brown boots and i love yours!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:50 amThank-you! I got them at Belk last year during their black friday sale. They were only $19.99!
Amanda Kruse says
October 19, 2017 at 8:38 amThis burgundy lace kimono is so pretty! It would look awesome paired with leather leggings for an edgy look.
xx,
Amanda || http://www.fortheloveofglitter.com
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:50 amThanks Amanda! Great idea! That’d look pretty too!
jessica says
October 19, 2017 at 1:47 pmThe phone is such a bummer but how did you feel not being on your phone?! was it good to be disconnected.
xo, Jessica || The Petite Diaries
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:53 amIt was weird/scary to know I had no way of getting in communication if an emergency happened, but other than that it was really liberating. I could sit down in the evening and not have the temptation of mindlessly scrolling through my phone. I didn’t have to worry about what was happening in the world for a little while and could actually focus on the now.
Jennifer says
October 19, 2017 at 8:17 pmAw, I’m so sorry to hear about your phone hun. That’s a great perspective to have, but I totally feel ya on the photo thing. I know those are precious. I love the lace! You just can’t go wrong in lace. Can’t wait to hear more about your new home!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:55 amThank-you! Thankfully I was able to save the photos at the last minute before my phone died. Super stressful though! lol
Erica @ Coming Up Roses says
October 20, 2017 at 6:04 amCara, you hit the nail on the head! SO sorry to hear about your phone cos that totally sucks, but MAN what a great outlook you have on it now! Patience is a virtue…you seem to have it right.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:57 amThanks Erica! I like finding the little lessons in the everyday moments. 🙂
Taylor Mobley says
October 20, 2017 at 9:10 amThat kimono is stunning on you.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:57 amThanks girl! I’m in love with the color!
Nadine says
October 20, 2017 at 10:35 amThat stinks so bad about your phone. I hope you are able to recover it! That outfit is so cute! I shopped at Pinkblush when I was pregnant and I always forget that they have regular clothes too. Their stuff is so cute. Hope you have a great weekend!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:58 amThanks, I was able to get the photos saved at the last minute thankfully, but it was so stressful. And they have such cute clothes!
Tiffany Haywood says
October 20, 2017 at 12:45 pmThis is one of my favorite colors! I love the lace and the contrast with the white jeans. Great look!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 9:58 amThank-you! I really love the contrast of the colors too!
Sierra says
October 20, 2017 at 4:25 pmThis kimono is so pretty on you! I’m not sure I’ve seen an all lace one before. Ugh, that is the worst having anything happen to your phone. It really makes us realize how dependent we are on them. We don’t even have a house phone so it’s our only way of communication. Glad you were able to look at it in a positive light! Xo, Sierra
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Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 10:00 amThank-you! That was the scary part is I had no way of reaching anyone if an emergency happened, but on the other hand it was kind of liberating to not have it glued to my hand. Thankfully I was able to save the photos in the end so it worked out, but so stressful.
Sara says
October 20, 2017 at 7:45 pmHere’s hoping your photos can be recovered. That’s the WORST!!!!!!!!!! I love that color on you (and for fall) – it’s absolutely gorgeous!!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 10:00 amThank-you Sara! It all worked out thankfully!
mahryska says
October 23, 2017 at 1:15 amsuch a pretty kimono!
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Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 10:01 amThank-you! 🙂
Dr. K. Lee Banks says
October 23, 2017 at 8:25 pmSorry to hear about your phone! I know rice worked when ice tea got dumped on my laptop (thanks to one of our cats dumping my glass over!), but I’m not sure if you have already tried that.
I love kimono – I wouldn’t mind having a few in different colors!
But this is ironic reading your post today, since I also posted today about patience, persistence, and perseverance. And yes, it’s so important to practice an attitude of gratitude everyday and recognize what and who is most important in our lives.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 10:11 amGreat minds think alike, right?! haha Thanks for your kind comment! It all worked out in the end thankfully but taught me an important lesson!
Ada says
October 24, 2017 at 10:48 pmThat sucks about the phone especially the photos part and I can relate because my brand-new phone which I had only had for 5-6 weeks suddenly turned off and never got started again and no photos were saved, but again life goes on. We shouldn’t depend on technology as much.
Love these photos Cara and the Fall hues you are wearing which match the view. That wine lacy kimono is stunning!
Welcome by Thursdays every week and linkup with me. Love your style.Thanks, Ada. =)
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 10:17 amThank you Ada! Things are just things, but the people in our lives are most important! 🙂
Erin | A Welder’s Wife says
October 25, 2017 at 10:53 amSo sorry to hear about your phone! This kimono is beautiful on you, as anything you wear! This color is so rich and versatile. I’d love to see different ways that you style it throughout fall!
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 10:32 amThanks Erin! I was able to save my photos thankfully before the phone died. And I love this kimono for fall. 🙂
Roxy says
October 25, 2017 at 9:04 pmThis kimono is PERFECT for fall and I love it paired with your boots and white jeans. This post is so spot on…patience is something I have yet to master, but I love your realization that the presence is so much better than worrying about the past.
Kindly Unspoken says
October 29, 2017 at 10:41 amThank-you! And it’s so important to focus on the here and now instead of worrying about the past or future. 🙂
Varuna jithesh says
February 4, 2018 at 7:32 amNice and perfect looking outfit..
Kindly Unspoken says
February 8, 2018 at 11:47 amthank-you!